Connecting with Donor Families
Southwest Transplant Alliance often receives questions and requests from transplant recipients who are interested in writing to their donor family. We know the decision to correspond with your donor family is a personal one and we are here to help.
All correspondence is anonymous and identities are kept confidential until both you and your donor’s family agree to share identifying information. If you are considering writing to your donor family, please use the following guide when you draft your correspondence. Download the Writing to Donor Families guide (PDF):
It’s important to remember that while you may wish to correspond with a donor family, it’s also the family’s personal choice to respond. Some families say it helps in the grieving process, while others – although grateful for the letter – prefer privacy and choose not to respond. Some families may take several months or years before they feel comfortable responding.
Remember, individuals manage grief in different ways, so please communicate in a sensitive manner. Thank you for considering writing to your donor family.
Meeting the Donor Family
Meeting your donor family can be a rewarding experience and Southwest Transplant Alliance loves to help facilitate those requests whenever possible. Everything begins with a letter to the donor family. Contact us and we’ll explain the process and help you with writing to your donor’s family.
If you need an organ transplant, you must be accepted by a hospital transplant center, a hospital that has an established organ transplant program with a team of surgeons and specialists who provide care for people who need transplants. Administrators of the program will place your name on the national waiting list, which is managed by the United Network for Organ Sharing (UNOS) in Richmond, Virginia.
Several things determine how you are placed on the waiting list:
- Blood type
- Body size
- Geographic location
- The severity of your illness
- Physical and psychological evaluations
- Other medical criteria
Factors that are NOT taken into consideration:
- Celebrity status